'Speaking From the Heart'
Posted by anastasia on 11-30-2005There's been so much fear mongering and negativity about teens and the Internet in the media lately, that I was inspired to post an interview I did for the book with a 17-year-old Iranian American blogger named Elaheh who writes at Bluebird Escape. Elaheh will be joining Casey (from Teen Fashionista), Carson (of Welcome to the Home of Carson C) and Kelly Hoffman (CEO of Varsity Media) in Austin for a panel on teens and technology at SXSW Interactive in March. The travel/expenses are being sponsored by Beinggirl.com.
Ypulse: Why did you start blogging?
Elaheh: I started a blog back in July 2002. It was called "my wishes." My older brother had noticed my interest in writing and encouraged me to make one. He was already in the business so he created one for me. Later when my writing improved and I had more to write about, he created a website for me. I called it Bluebirdescape.
YP: Who reads your blog?
Elaheh: I have many readers from all over the world. Most are from the U.S., Iran, and Belgium, where my brother lives. I had many visitors while I was in Iran for vacation in the summer of 2003. I had kept a diary about my first visit to Iran after four years. It was amazing to see how many people read my stuff and commented. My English teacher, friends/cousins, mom, and siblings read it too.
YP: How has your writing and/or sense of identity evolved since you started blogging?
Elaheh: My sense of identity and writing have both evolved tremendously. I'm amazed at how my writing grew; when I look back at the things I wrote three or even two years ago and compare it to what I write now; I realize how much I learned. And I'm not just talking about grammar and punctuation; I'm talking about using my voice, speaking from the heart, and being able to have even one short, but meaningful sentence. Writing is my identity; what I write is essentially who I am. I can express myself better when I write. So yes, blogging encouraged me to write more, dig dipper into myself, and really look and observe the world around me. I get a rush when I write from the inside, when I can hit the point and feel what I wrote, when I can read it over and over and be satisfied.
YP: Do your parents read your blog?
Elaheh: Yes, my mother reads my blog. She enjoys reading it and has always been supportive of my writing. She encourages me to continue; she's my inspiration. I don't think my mom has ever been worried or concerned because she trusts me. She knows writing is what I do and she respects it; when I tell her about the many readers I have, she gets happy.
YP: Do your offline friends read your blog?
Elaheh: My friends read my blog once in a while. I don't expect them to since I've written so much! Sometimes there'd be a particular piece that I might ask my best friend to read and comment on.
YP: Do any of your friends maintain blogs? If so, do you read them? Do you post comments?
Elaheh: One of my friends in Belgium has a blog. Hers is drawings and photos. I do check on it once in a while and leave comments. It's amazing what comments can do for you; the good ones brighten up your whole day and make you want to do better, whether it's art or writing.
YP: What do you see as the difference between keeping a written diary and publishing your blog?
Elaheh: Keeping a diary and publishing a blog are very different things. I used to keep a diary, but it was on and off. Sometimes I'd write in it and sometimes I wouldn't even open it until the next year. I don't think I ever finished one anyway; I always enjoyed typing better. Also with blogging you have readers, you get feed back (if you allow comments) and you take it more seriously. I took it more seriously when I had a blog; I took time with it and wanted it to be perfect. It's nice to have your own page, the color and design you want, the font, and then there's the fact that you know others might read it. That's another encouragement; you know your words matter, you're not speaking to a 'dear diary' anymore, you're speaking to the whole world, to yourself especially, but out loud as opposed to a diary.








November 30th, 2005 at 9:57 am
Anastasia,
Good stuff. But I'd love to get comments from a "regular" teen. What I mean by that is that Elaheh's blog is a much more thoughtful and serious blog. What about the millions of teens who have MySpace or Xanga sites just to have them and to journal their thoughts and make friends. Not that Elaheh is not a regular teen. But I think you know what I mean. The question I am most interested in is the "Why?" Why put your innermost thoughts about your friends and family and relationships online where those same people can read them. I see teens who dis their closest friends online by name, and then the drama escalates.
Do you have any interview excerpts from teens like that? Either way, I look forward to the book. I think this is a fascinating subject.
Ken
November 30th, 2005 at 11:03 am
Hi Ken. There are lots of teens who use blogs to keep detailed diaries, share their poetry and artwork and remix video/music into their own creations — Pew just backed that up with their research (http://www.pewinternet.org/pdfs/PIP_Teens_Content_Creation.pdf). Elaheh is just one of them and someone who is also incredibly eloquent when talking about what blogging has done for her.
This post was not meant to represent all teens or the breadth of interviews for the book, but rather to offer a dose of positive energy into a topic that's been covered in a mostly negative way. You'll just have to wait for the book :)