Deborah Reber has been a long time Ypulse reader and is a fellow author with a new non-fiction book out for teen girls called In Their Shoes: Extraordinary Women Describe Their Amazing Careers. I did an email Q&A with her and want to give away three books to the first three commenters who write about someone who inspired you professionally in what you do -- it can be anyone, even Oprah...
Ypulse: Why did you write In Their Shoes and who is your target audience?
Deborah Reber: It took me a long time to figure what I wanted to do with my life, in large part because I was obsessed with the movie "Broadcast News" and just knew I was destined to live the life portrayed so well by Holly Hunter. But when I graduated from college and got a firsthand look at the world of network news, I realized that making career decisions based on a Hollywood movie probably wasn’t the smartest move. TV news wasn’t what I expected, and it definitely wasn’t the right fit for me. Now that I’ve finally found my perfect career in writing for teens, I feel a sense of responsibility to provide the next generation of career women access to the kind of information and inspiration I didn’t have.
I wrote In Their Shoes with a primarily teen audience in mind…girls who are exploring their interests and who are in desperate need of role models to show them what it’s really like to do what they do. The idea isn’t necessarily to help girls narrow down their future career choice as much as expose them to the cool careers that exist and encourage them to discover what resonates with them. That being said, In Their Shoes wasn’t “written down” in terms of tone, and it will also definitely inspire any woman looking to make a career change and in search of some insight from the trenches.
I’m doing my best to cover all of the bases. I’ve been building up my “brand” of smart content for smart girls for the past year or so, and in doing that, created the blog Smart Girls Know, where I communicate directly with teen girls about the issues important in their lives and send out weekly “smart girls know affirmations” to a subscriber base of girls made up primarily of teens who know me through my Chicken Soup for the Teenage Soul series, The Real Deal. I’ve tried to build up my MySpace presence as well, duplicating my Smart Girls Know blog there and reaching out to YA librarians and other decision-makers in the YA arena. You’ll also find relevant blog entries paired up with my teen books on Amazon, with a link back to my website on each one.
Lastly, I just re-launched my author’s website to include a huge section on In Their Shoes, where I’m offering a limited number of original audio interviews recorded for the book as downloads, a limited number of “uncut” interview transcripts, a PDF of a profile from the book, and an author’s diary about the writing process of the book. I am going to be cross-promoting this bonus content with websites of organizations featured in the book as well as those with similar goals for girls.
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YP: What was the most challenging aspect of the whole book process for you?
DR: Logistically, In Their Shoes was a beast to write. I had to juggle researching, contacting and interviewing fifty different women (not including the ones who passed on the project), each with their own busy schedules, parameters for participating and, in some cases, "people" that I had to communicate through. Transcriptions, approvals, release forms, photos… I could take out a small storage place just to hold all of my files from the past year. It was also challenging to narrow down the careers and women that I would ultimately profile because I wanted to make sure the book did a good job of highlighting underrepresented career fields for women in math, science and technology, as well as interview women whose inclusion provided geographic and ethnic diversity to the project.
YP: Who is your favorite "extraordinary" woman in your book and why?
DR: They were all extraordinary in their own way, and they each had such a unique perspective…I had at least one "aha moment" during every interview. That said, I’ll give you my three favorites (I couldn't narrow down to one). Shonda Rhimes (creator of Grey's Anatomy) because she is breaking so many barriers and is simply a phenomenal writer and powerhouse in Hollywood, Melissa Block (co-host of NPR's All Things Considered) because I’m still a news geek at heart and greatly admire the work she does, and entrepreneur Missy Park (founder of Title 9 Sports) because she created such a cool company out of nothing and has never lost sight of her passion and original vision.
YP: What advice would you give young women thinking about their future, especially with the "amazing girls" syndrome of stress and perfectionism happening with more affluent college bound girls?
DR: It's funny…I started out writing this book so girls could have the information they needed to make smarter choices about their career futures, but what I learned along the way is that you can't make a wrong move as long as you're always looking for what you can gain from each experience. I think it's important that young women stay open and not put too much pressure on themselves to get on the fast track or be concerned if their career sidetracks in an unexpected direction, because sometimes those sidetracks end up being the best career move of all. There is a ton of pressure to go to the right school, graduate with the right GPA and get the perfect entry-level job, and the reality is, you don't need the perfect resume to find happiness and make your mark. Passion and staying open to the possibilities can take you just as far.
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I totally agree with DR... Though I admit I did the same, there is no reason to stress over getting into that one college that requires a 30 on the ACT or a 4.0 GPA.
And landing the perfect entry-level job? Let's face it - that may not happen. First of all, it's an "entry-level" job, so there's your first clue about what kind of salary you should expect to receive and hours you should expect to work.
After studying hard and working my way through college (even managing to be a cheerleader and an active member of my sorority), I can thankfully say that I scored big-time with my first job, which I still have. Though I don't get paid an amazing salary, I am doing something I love, I love going to work, and I'm very happy with the people I work with.
I'm a big believer in the cliche phrase, "Everything happens for a reason." So with that said, make the most of the time you have left in school... It goes by way too fast. Worry about all the other stuff when it's time.
Good luck!
Posted by: Beth | April 16, 2007 2:37 PM
I'm a youth minister, and the seminary where I take distance-learning courses paired me up with a mentor named Nancy. Random mentor-mentee relationships often don't work, but Nancy was the right person for me. Her approach to career was winding and filled with a variety of life experiences.
A stay-at-home mom for a number of years, Nancy started a Master's degree in her twenties and finished it a decade or two later. When her kids were older, she taught at a small college and began work on a PhD. She's now a professor and researcher on young people's faith development.
Through the adventures of motherhood, volunteerism, and employment, she kept growing and learning, accumulating the knowledge and experience that make her an amazing professor and mentor.
A 20/20 program once described Ronan Tynan, an Irish Tenor, as a person "Collecting dreams like wildflowers". Encouraging our young women to do just that is part of what working with teenagers is about for me. I'm looking forward to reading Reber's book, hoping that it encourages the collection of all kinds of dreams throughout one's lifetime.
Posted by: Beth | April 17, 2007 8:24 AM
I love DR's approach and think girls and young women will get a lot of great information from reading her book. I've worked with girls and young women to develop leadership skills in many different contexts, and personal stories from women who've "been there" and "made it" are so effective in helping young people understand the decisions that are ahead of them.
I look forward to reading it!
Posted by: Patti Binder | April 18, 2007 5:29 AM
In college, I thought the director of the scholarship program I was part of had the most amazing job. She was seen as a creative and emerging leader; she led one of the top scholarship programs in the state; and she had a lot of fun. I looked up to her as a model of the ultimate professional woman, and I knew her advice was always on target. She was also getting her phD and kept up with several hobbies, including daily karate. Not only was she smart - she did what she wanted, and enjoyed it. She also dealt with several hundred students each year, but knew my story and had great insight each time I went to talk to her about college plans and career goals. She's definitely one of those women who you know has got it together!
I'm also impressed with Shonda Rhimes - as a big Grey's fan, I listen to her podcast and was always impressed with her desire to connect with the fans, explain her reasoning, and take critiques and criticism.
Posted by: Allison | April 18, 2007 6:29 AM
I actually think the person who inspired me the most is not a woman, but my dad. He always encouraged me to go into any profession I wanted, including science or medicine. I ended up in publishing, but I always knew he thought I could succeed at anything. Even today, he's president of his company and doesn't hesitate to discuss business with me, even though I'm still a bit far from being the company president! Raising girls who believe they can become anything is the most important first step to growing successful professional women.
Posted by: Erin | April 18, 2007 7:40 AM
I love all of these comments...so great to hear who everyone's inspiration was/is. Even though I didn't end up working in TV news, I still say Holly Hunter's character in the movie Broadcast News was a huge force in my life. She showed me that women could be tough, smart, and vulnerable all at the same time.
I also wanted to share that one of things I found most interesting in interviewing all of the women for In Their Shoes was that many of them told me that the people who helped them achieve their success was other women. And that even though there is a lot of talk about women backstabbing other women in the workplace, the reality is, big forces in supposedly cut-throat industries like Shonda Rhimes of Grey's Anatomy and movie exec Alli Shearmur say that nurturing women helped them get to where they are. This has definitely been my experience, and it was nice to hear from women in a variety of fields.
Posted by: Debbie Reber | April 25, 2007 11:43 AM